Improving oneself can get one stuck in a loop of fixing, feeling like ”I’m just gonna adjust this one more thing about me, THEN I’m gonna be ready and able and good enough to attract the perfect partner!”
There is no perfect version of me and there is no perfect partner. And at the same time I am whole and have always been whole. Perfectly imperfect.
Choose a partner who accepts you for you and who is willing to go on a journey and grow alongside you.