It’s common to want to prove one’s worth through accomplishments. People feel judged by others on their success.
I, too, used to identify with my achievements, thinking that others could only accept the flawless side of me. To move away from this unhelpful thought pattern I had to accept myself, flaws and all.
I still have inner work to do in this area, but I have learnt that what I accomplish and who I am are two entirely different things.
My self-worth can’t be measured by my success. Nothing I DO will increase my worthiness. I’m worthy of all the beauty and love that life has to offer just by BEING me.
And so are you. Just be yourself. You are enough. It all starts with self-love.